Soft skills — the real job
Influence, translation, evangelism with substance, coaching at scale.
For a cross-team/cross-BU role these outweigh the hard skills. Rank them this high in your own development plan.
Key ideas
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Influence without authority is the #1 skill: build coalitions, empower a champion inside each team, trade value, and make the right thing the EASY thing.
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Translate fluently across three audiences — engineers (precise, show code/evals), product (outcomes/risk/cost), execs & risk (one-page, decision-oriented).
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Evangelize with substance: every demo carries a number and a way to verify quality, so you're never the hype person who gets found out.
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Coach and teach at scale — your success metric is OTHER people's capability, not your own output.
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Handle fear honestly: bring skeptics in as reviewers/red-teamers so they become owners, not blockers.
Influence without authority
You'll ask teams that don't report to you to change how they work. Find and empower champions, trade value (“I'll save your team 2 days → you pilot my approach”), make the compliant/high-quality path the easy default, and let others take the credit.
Communication & translation
- To engineers: precise, technical, credible — show code/evals, not slides.
- To product/business: outcomes, risk, cost, timelines — no jargon.
- To execs/risk/legal: one page, decision-oriented, options with tradeoffs.
Coaching, facilitation, change
Run workshops, office hours and a community of practice; facilitate design forums neutrally and drive to documented decisions; manage change by acknowledging fear and never overselling.
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